Do you or Dont you?

One out of every five of my peers tells me the same sad tale. And where none of these women know each other, it is amazing to hear the same thing happen to every single one of them.

Its a Friday night and the girls are wearing their sexy freak-um dresses in hopes of not only having a fun evening but possibly meeting a cute guy, hell, possibly a nice guy. So the night is going well, music is pumping thought the air, you and your girls are dancing having drinks, and you see him. He approaches and starts dancing with you, a couple songs play out and he buys you a drink. Next thing you know you are exchanging numbers in hopes that you will actually hear from him. Lucky you the very next day sure enough he calls. You both call each other and after a few conversations you realize that you both have a lot in common. Same likes and dislikes and even same pet peeves. lol. Then it happens...the phone calls went from every so many days to nothing. Did something happen to him? OMG!! Why isn't he calling? Did I do or say something wrong? Then every one of these women ask me the same thing...Why do i feel like I just got played? then the anger sets in...

Here is my question to the men...Why do you do this? Either you like the woman or you don't. Its that simple. I don't understand why the game playing. If you saw that you aren't interested after the initial meeting, kick rocks, get to stepping. Why waste someones time like that? Isn't it just as simple of act to tell a person you are not interested? As harsh as it may seem, it is just that simple! Please help me understand the man's way of thinking...