One out of every five of my peers tells me the same sad tale. And where none of these women know each other, it is amazing to hear the same thing happen to every single one of them.
Its a Friday night and the girls are wearing their sexy freak-um dresses in hopes of not only having a fun evening but possibly meeting a cute guy, hell, possibly a nice guy. So the night is going well, music is pumping thought the air, you and your girls are dancing having drinks, and you see him. He approaches and starts dancing with you, a couple songs play out and he buys you a drink. Next thing you know you are exchanging numbers in hopes that you will actually hear from him. Lucky you the very next day sure enough he calls. You both call each other and after a few conversations you realize that you both have a lot in common. Same likes and dislikes and even same pet peeves. lol. Then it happens...the phone calls went from every so many days to nothing. Did something happen to him? OMG!! Why isn't he calling? Did I do or say something wrong? Then every one of these women ask me the same thing...Why do i feel like I just got played? then the anger sets in...
Here is my question to the men...Why do you do this? Either you like the woman or you don't. Its that simple. I don't understand why the game playing. If you saw that you aren't interested after the initial meeting, kick rocks, get to stepping. Why waste someones time like that? Isn't it just as simple of act to tell a person you are not interested? As harsh as it may seem, it is just that simple! Please help me understand the man's way of thinking...
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Men are an interesting lot. They love the chase but when the chase is over they tend to move on. I woman who intends to keep and man interested needs to keep him thinking. While that may seem strange - thats the way it is.
ReplyDeleteWomen need to keep the mystery alive, and the man needs to provide psychological stability while keeping the woman thinking.
"Never put all your eggs in one basket." Talking is just talking. But I'm just a girl who has lots if male friends. I agree keep them guessing without playing games. Commitment is such a turnoff especially when that's not what your looking for. It wonderful to have things in common but that's not what keeps things moving. It's building memories and moments too. Talk is just talk.
ReplyDeleteIts the ladies fault. Yeah, I said it. While it's said that men love the chase, women love to BE chased. Its all part of this little game that they have devised. Don't get me wrong, I am in a great relationship now, but when I wasn't some girls just made the work too hard, and make men work just to see how far they'll go. You don't see when doing that. If all the women want to be so independent, why don't you work a little harder besides using the clothes you where and how you smell. Not sure this makes a lot of sense, and I could be talking out of my ass. I do that a lot.
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