" Should We or Shouldn't We? "

OK, I know this may come off as either a little prudish or down right whorish, but I must ask, " Is it really that bad if a female sleeps with a man she just went on one date with or just met? "

Again I will use myself as an example...I was married for 9 years and my ex-husband was my first love, in ever sense of the word. I lost my virginity with him and although I don't regret the decision I made at the time to have waited until I was 20 years old (yes I was that old) I do regret not have dated more before I met him. I think I would have had a better grasp as far as the whole dating and casual sex thing that goes on between men and women. Since my divorce in 2006 I have had some experiences I regret and some I am thankful for, but it wasn't until I met a very good male friend of mine that open my eyes to pride that I should have in myself and as long as I was comfortable in what I was doing, did I not see myself as a whore if I had a one night stand. I have met men that I was strongly attracted to and did have a one niter with. I see myself as just coming into my own, exploring and discovering myself being that I never had really dated when I was younger. So does this make me a whore if I was to go out with a male friend of mine and we end up being intimate because the mood was right? Or if I met a guy in a club and was so attracted to him physically that I went home with him and did the deed? I don't think so, but I guess as long as I don't have a problem with it, so be it.

So I ask you, Ladies, Gentlemen, Should we or shouldn't we?...