" Men make me dizzy"

I think I will always be confused when it comes to men and their behavior. I tried several approaches when it comes to meeting and pursuing a man. I have played it cool, not to seem to desperate and clingy. Didn't work. So I tried where I was the aggressor, letting the man know what I wanted, so that we were on the same page. Didn't work. I lastly tried just letting things happen and seeing where it lead us. Didn't work, instead I got nothing but late night booty calls and unwanted acts of disrespect.

I was married once and even though I would not resort to returning to that kind of abuse, it stands to be nothing compared to this daily headache.

Any thoughts?