OK, maybe I didn't get the memo or the directions, but when did it become such a mandatory part of courting to play all of these asinine mind games? It seems more and more these days that men and women are playing these fucking games that lead to nothing but drama.
If I wanted to play, I would, but we are grown ass people, games are for children. Leave it to the kids. This is such a juvenile state of mind. wow, are you fucking serious?? I mean, lets keep it real, if you are just looking for a hook up, don't tell the person that you want to get to know them better. If you just want to taste the milk without having to buy the cow, keep it real. If you want to keep things on the "DL", never going out in public but just between the sheets, keep it real. If you have absolutely no intentions of actually being in a relationship, keep it real.
I would much rather a man keep it real with me than to string me along in hopes that something might actually work out. With you being honest from the gate it at least gives me the opportunity to be involved with you or not. I think men would be very surprised to see that there are many women out there that might actually like the unconventional relationship. I know of many women that would rather be a friends with benefits rather than be in a relationship.
But seriously someone give me the insight on why men and women plays these silly, petty, juvenile games that lead to nothing but drama?
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Is it possible that you are just a Drama-game Magnet. It is said that you only receive what you put out there and maybe you attract the game players because you are one yourself??
ReplyDeleteI dont play games though, if I meet a guy and things seem to be going well, from the gate I am asking whats their deal, I have thank God, been able to figure them out before I even find myself interested. Some of my friends however, havent been so lucky, so I will pose them that question.
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